Hi friend, in this blog, I am going to some lesson that I learned by my mistake and my past experience
This world😕😕?
We believe whoever tell whatever. How do we listen? If anyone tells anything, then we believe it is true. For example, If someone tells IT job is great or best, after we all will go behind it. If someone tells, he want to become a hero, then all will go for it. In this world, there are thousand of people may say a thousand thing, you cannot do all.
First, think yourself what you are doing. See, if your wishes are with justice. See, if it is useful for you. See, is it giving you peace of mind? Without peace of mind whatever we get or do it is no use. What you are think about? This worldðŸ¤ðŸ¤. This world will speak a thousand things. One will tell we shall go there. or one girl will tell we shall go here. People around us will tell us a thousand things.
Satisfied mind🤗🤗
At first see, what your mind is telling? Because I am now following it and I know its importance. So now I am with a satisifed mind. I working with a satisfied mind. Some of them have feel low about their professional or work. Like as I am only a driver or I am only a sweeper or clearer or bathroom clearer, but whoever thinks their place as great will get new great things in their life. For example, an engineer is driving is auto or some of doctor is doing an agriculture. But in farmers house's, they feel farming is low and ask their children to go for some other work. Isn't it right?
I reinforced it again, each and everyone has some talents. Even honey bee has its talents or Monkey has its talents or cow has its talents and so snakes also have an it's talents. An elephant is an elephant in its area. So as tiger is a tiger in its area. Same as you are you in your area, and so ever in their area. I reinforce it again, there is nothing to feel low in this.
Who knows pain of creating?
If you want to be comfortable and respectable, you must be in your mother's lap only. Nowhere in this world will give be respected. Whatever be the work as cleaner, sweeping, or washing is not low in this world. If Ford Motor company owner(Henry Ford) is here now, Did he allow to closed the Ford Company? No. Because the company present members who came after him, don't know the pain that he face to open it. He only knows the pain behind his creation. Saravana stores, Vasanth & co are best examples for creating from nowhere. How many difficulties they must have faced?
The people around us will only speak about good thing only. They will never speak about the difficulties or bad things, because it is the secret. If you know about it, then you may become a big or great person.
What is the secret of growth?
What is the secret? What is the basic of it? Contempt, this is the secret or basic of growth. Who all has faced contempt have learned the basics. It is "Ugly & Shame". The truth is none have shame us, we or ourselves thought it was shame us. Why do most people with talent face failure? They are not aware of where and what to speak. Whatever they think, they speak or do. If I asked why, then they say "I am true and come from the countryside".
My question is "Does all countryside people are trueful to other? Last year's bomb blast in rails was done by a person countryside. But, he will be loyal to that terrorist group, do you understand? He will be loyal in any given work. But we all should first open our knowledge. What must we do? First by opening our knowledge should find out which is justice and injustice.
What is changing now?
I am telling to all of us and even to all our parents. In my younger age, when my hands and legs are paining and feel tired, my mother used to ask me to message her legs at night. It is a boon. But nowadays, she is not asking, I feel so much for it. What my mother used to thinking is, I come very tired and tensed, why to ask him and make him upset. Previously, my mother used to ask me to message her legs very often. Nowadays she never asks me to message her legs. Even now her legs are paining or even more. But, what she thinks is, our pain has grown and not to disturb us.
I reinforced it again, the biggest biggest heaven is in my mother's legs. What do you think of a our mother's pride? Is her son in that place in a big position or earning a handful of money? No, this can be father pride. Father used to be so proud of you in his place. But mother are not so. Father will be so proud of you, but the mother is not proud of it.
He is living well. That sentence will make her happy and make her comfort. And my son is living good, and he eaten well and now he is slept well. There are even more mother asking to have an oil bath regularly.
"Son, Take care of yourself, Cross the road carefully " these are from mother.
"Son, Hold my hands, Be careful, Don't get into a running bus" these are from mother.
Mother will never see what you achieved. If you are good, that itself it's an achievement for her. The name mother is a magic word. Someone may live in somewhere in a hostel. Just remember that your mother is living everywhere, even your hostel mate and collage mate who really care about you, then they are your mothers. When we respect all the ladies you see, then that is the love and respect you give to your mother. So, I reinforced it again,
Never dishonor to anyone especially ladies.You are dishonoring a girl or lady, you are dishonoring your mother.
When you see them like this, Can you see or imaginary any ladies wrongly? Will you feel like misbehaving to any girl? You will not feel. Because you have changed your basic. This is what every man in the entire world should follow.
Unconditional LOVE
Look your mother in every girl you see. What makes you loyal to your mother and father? Is they gave you this body and soul or give you emotional love? LOVE. Most of us will say, today whatever I am is due to my father. Is it because of your shirt or pants or chain? Or By teaching you what is life? And showing you love and acceptance as what you are? What feel you give even good or bad to them. When will this world will call you a great? It is what feel you are going to give this world in next 10 years or 20 years, What feeling you are going to creating this life?
It always starts for here itself and this second also. What feelings you give to this world or your family or yourself? It lies in what you did for your family or yourself. If you are honest in here, then you are great in here. You can be great at anywhere but be honest with yourself. I know that, we can't be great at everything or everywhere. If you want to be great in every place, it depends on what feel you give. Its always feel of trust or Feel of love or Feel of loyal or Feel of irreplaceable or Feel of acceptance. Even feel of accepting the people as they are. When you accept them the way they are. Then you are great. Same as "Did your mother ever tell you to change this or that in your childhood?" When her son's is not good to others, or legs isn't good or deaf or dumb, but she will accept you. Because a mother is always a mother. That why mother is great. Even it is not mentioned as great behind the mother's name, anyway she is great. Why? Because LOVE, Unconditional LOVE. You should become fair or you should grow like this or your nose should be like this or you should ramp walk or you should have a six-pack or you should earn atleast fifty thousand and pay all the her debts or you should buy a land for her. But she doesn't want any of it.
Conclusion
She need nothing. All she needs is your happiness. That why, there is no biggest sakthi or power then the mother. So boon is not asking God to give this and that. All you need is your mother fully blessing. Ask a god, like Give my mother's entire blessings to me. I should live a life , as to how my mother wishes her son to live. That should be your prayer.
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