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In this blog, I am going to share the my thought about stay motivated always. I doing same mistake for my life in my past. After few event, I feel it's ok to feel de-motivated or loser or useless. We can't stay motivated or productivity thing or inspiring other. It's okay to do what we need to do, even it useless thing or it wasting our time or attending the function which you hate most.
Motivated always is good or bad?
Many of us claims that their motivation is not same in our life or even in single entire day. It changing continuous for me, like "In morning, I feel good", after some, "I feel upset", after some time, "I feel hungry", After some time, "I feel like useless". Same as one day, we feel good, and the next day as demotivated. After ten days, we feel good after that don't work with the same force or same fire to do the normal things. For example, when I start studying, someone telling me that' "This important for your life & future". After that I feel motivated maximum for one or two weeks, after sometimes, I slowly losing it & stay motivated not more than one hour and again go back to the same state of mind.
What to do in that situation? I want to reinforce it. My best advice to you is, How much power need to the motivation you same amount of power has the de-motivation too. The day is so powerful as the same night is also so powerful. Same as positive vibration is as good as negative vibration. First we need understand this fact. See, many might have told you should swim against in the life to win in life. But, I asked them, Why should I need do it always? We see a wave in the sea, do we enjoy swimming along with the wave or against the wave? See, life is not a competition, "Understand that first".
Life is not race
I would like to tell you this important thing like crystal clearly. Life is not a competition. Life is not a race. Life is not a competition exam, where you are writing with so many people around you for scoring. No, not at all this. Life is just for you. Do you think your last Monday will come back again? Do you think 2022 right now you are going through? Can you bring back 2021? No, it's gone. What you got back by struggling against it? It maybe you can feel like "I should win, I should achieve this". Which one to win or achieve? First, this life which you are living now, "Is it always going in upward or It goes up and down?"
Then in life, if you ask me how to be motivated always, I will ask why should you need to stay motivated always? Why can't de-motivation for sometime? Do you think that make your life easy?
When you are de-motivated for sometime, what will happens?Nothing. See, every day you cannot be motivated. My point is this, the "need to be motivated always" itself is the biggest de-motivated in our life, it is according to me. One day, I will be motivated, happy, and enjoining everything. Think well, if you are motivated always, will you be happy? No, Because it's lie. If anyone says that they always highly motivated, he will not be as himself & honest to him. Somewhere, motivation is the thing, that inspires within you by the strength. When the maximum energy gets converted for useful things, then you will get motivated. When you lack of energy, then you get demotivated.
How can you gain energy?
So, to get motivated what you need to do is, when you are not energized, you must have to relax. That's ok, you lose or relaxing. That's ok, you fail to do the thing. After relaxing, you regain the energy to get motivated. So, if you have ten days in your life and be motivated for three days is enough and super. Balance seven days, instead of do anything that, you are relax or rest or demotivated, that's ok. Believe that you will again get the next three days motivated, you will have a opportunity to win. During this period, you need to be happy. Relaxed and learn like what is the other side of life or prefer to reward to yourself.
See, life is like a prayer. What is prayer? Prayer is just believing that everything will be fine. When you believing, that's everything is ok. for us, prayer is not motivated, it just self believing feel of "I will be successful by that's the prayer". Do you all motivated need to win? No, not really. Do all happy people have a reason to win? Mostly, Yes. At least, his success may not be seen as visible as ours, but he is happy for small reason like his staff doing working well. If you are not happy, Then what happen? Life is not going to be successful at all.
If people ask how to stay motivated, I will only tell them this. First, believe whatever "I am telling is exactly right". First never want or never push yourself to be highly motivated every time. Not at all. And allow whatever is happening in you. Watch what is happening inside you. Watch your feel with awareness like now you are sad, now you are happy, now you are highly motivated. When you are highly motivated just think what all I can achieve. I will achieve. If I am not motivated, that's ok. I will learn about that. Or I will take some rest and again I will come back. Again I will hit back harder. If I am not motivated, that's ok, what next? Nothing, I am going to relax happily like going to watch TV, mobile or read or to do thing that make me a stay happy, that's it. Many wish to be motivated every time, WHY? Because they think "They Desire It".
Many of us will have desire like I must get good names always or must win always. It's not possible. If you are winning always, according to me, it's a defeat. Always staying motivated, according to me, it is equal to being de-motivated. Anything which you act or anything which you create artificially is not going to help you. Natural motivation will come with your energy. How to keep that energy level higher then? This is what you should learn now. If you energy level is high, then you will stay motivated, Which energy it should be? Whether you are male or female, never waste your energy.
What is a waste of energy?
Not watching unwanted movies, not having unwanted thoughts, releasing unwanted speech to other. Many thinks, that's ok, like I will be happy with English channels and mobile phones. When you decide to enjoy it, you will be highly motivated. The reason for de-motivated is guilt.The problem many facing is, I did it, but it is wrong. After the enjoyment, they will be motivated, after enjoying it, they will feel guilty. Should never do things which we feel guilty about.
That will keep the energy level always at a peak. The high technique is never to fall guilty. When will you feel guilty? when you decided not to do certain things, but you did it and realized it's bad, now you feel guilty.
You will have high energy, when you are not guilty. With this high energy, you get high motivation. With high motivation, you will get high success. With high success, you will get more happy.
But, While traveling on this path, suddenly if I feel like watching TV in between my studies. That's ok. I will complete my studies and watch TV. One day, I may feel like playing, that's ok. I will go out and play, We should act according to our minds with 100% awareness. While playing, if you get distracted with your studies, you are failing. While playing computer games and get distracted with assignment, again you are failing. See, when you play computer games, put all your energy there, happy. When you watch TV put all your energy there, happy. Learn from the TV programs. When you study to give all your energy level there.
So, how to stay motivated. So, first what you should understand from this first, when we are not with motivation always, that's ok. Secondly, if you decide to motivated always, keep your energy level at the peak. To keep my energy level at its peak, you should never do things that make you guilty. I didn't do things that make me guilty. I play while I am studying is not de-motivation. I am shifting my concentration from one place to another while shifting. If I am with full awareness, I will be successful and learn from it. I get energy while playing. With this energy and happiness, I raise my energy level. By raising my energy level motivated and step into my life to the next level.If you realize this you will get clarity in your life. Certain things must be seen with intuition and wisdom.
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