Hi friends, I am going to discuss some mistake which makes in my life more hard and depression at starting of my life.
Talking more, When I need to listen:
Most of time, i hate listen to other, even they doing good for me. For every successful person, they need to listen more, but talking less. That why nature create us with one mouth and two ears. I know listening to other is very difficult. Even now also, I can't do that. But now I kept conditioning it, maybe in future, I will condition it fully.
Compare with others:
Always I have a guilty feeling by comparing my life with other. Even I wanted to show them that I can do what they doing or learning about skill which other doing. Most of time, I simply forget about my own jobs or skills. Instead of improving my own skill, I forgetting it. Sometime I feel like useless because of some achievement or medals won by other. I just loss sences of self worrying/improvement. Whenever I reading or listening to something, I like it or not my thoughts is simply compare me with them. But whenever I going out, I always have thought, "What will they think about me?", So after that I change my real idea to them.
Badmouth:
Most of time, I forgot one quote"You never look good, trying to make someone else look bad". A good friend won't ever badmouth you behind your back. It slowly changed my lifestyle and my habit
Gossips:
Gossip is idle talk or rumour, especially about the personal or private affairs of others. Basically, we all know how damaging it can be to devote a great deal of time to speaking ill of others. It’s generally considered a bad practice, but many of them continue to do it. When I starting gossip, that time I can feel like I belong to a that group. We always point out vices or problems of people who aren’t a part of the conversation.
Identity for me:
Sometime I feel whatever things I owni reflection of myself. It was my thought most of time. I know it really difficult to give up the thing we own or not owning them. When I am at working, I just think my job is my identity, so I need to prove it. Even I know it will turn into bad, if I can't do it. When I failed, I think that I am loser and my decision always end up in pain. Next time, I am really fear to start the work.
Wild Imaginary:
Big problem is my imagination. Most of my time, I fear about my imagination problem. But in real-time, it will not create any problem. Always face the trouble after coming to us, not before starting it. Simple don't fear about unwanted problem like what will happen now? First just do it, after that you will know what is happening now😁😁. Most popular quote, we all know that"Even thousand kilometres of journey, is starting with single step".
Judging other:
Most of time, I like do it say always, but I know it is not my duty to judge them. You can give suggestions to other in work or improvement or idea or which is it right and wrong?. But don't judge the character by spoke with them. Or don't ask them about personal questions when they are uncomfortable. Most importantly, without knowing them properly, simple guess the character or personal character is mistake. We should need to avoid it at any cost. "If one finger is show to them, them remaining three fingers is pointing at you"
Over Intelligent:
Even Intelligent is wrong. I always think that I am over intelligent. But over intelligent is very wrong or mistake. Always do what is right and make scene. But don't do it too much, because you like to perfection it. "Nobody is perfect"
